“I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it -- I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know -- but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me. I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay.”
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
I am Me
Monday, August 10, 2009
Friday, August 07, 2009
Sounds like a great idea!!!
| Dear Rosalinda, Here is your horoscope for Friday, August 7: |
| Try to just kick back and enjoy the smaller, sweeter aspects of life today -- there's no need to panic over the big picture! It's a good idea for you to blow off any major appointments for a few days. |
Wednesday, August 05, 2009
Fear
“A couple of hundred years ago, Benjamin Franklin shared with the world the secret of his success. Never leave that till tomorrow, he said, which you can do today. This is the man who discovered electricity. You think more people would listen to what he had to say. I don't know why we put things off, but if I had to guess, I'd have to say it has a lot to do with fear. Fear of failure, fear of rejection, sometimes the fear is just of making a decision, because what if you're wrong? What if you're making a mistake you can't undo? The early bird catches the worm. A stitch in time saves nine. He who hesitates is lost. We can't pretend we hadn't been told. We've all heard the proverbs, heard the philosophers, heard our grandparents warning us about wasted time, heard the damn poets urging us to seize the day. Still sometimes we have to see for ourselves. We have to make our own mistakes. We have to learn our own lessons. We have to sweep today's possibility under tomorrow's rug until we can't anymore. Until we finally understand for ourselves what Benjamin Franklin really meant. That knowing is better than wondering, that waking is better than sleeping, and even the biggest failure, even the worst, beat the hell out of never trying.” firefly047724
Monday, August 03, 2009
Sunday, August 02, 2009
What does the week you were born say about you? on Facebook
The Week of the Perfectionist – Libra 1 September 25 – October 2
You have a contrasting personality. A highly attractive personality and the need to be in the limelight but yet are not overly social and the need to spend time alone. You have perfectionist tendencies which show in every area of your life. You have extremely high standards for yourself and those around you. Sometimes your need for perfection can lead you to become obsessive compulsive. You are an over achiever due to your insecurities and viewed as highly successful. You have an intense personality capable of great achievements but are very indecisive and can take years to make a decision. You are emotionally complex, a cool exterior that masks your inner turmoil. You have a biting sense of humor and wry wit that you express in irony and sarcasm. You are sexually intense but have a hard time sharing your feelings at a deep level. Strengths: Attractive – Exacting – Cool Weaknesses: Indecisive – Scathing – Repressed