Or is it? Don't you love it when you have to eat your own words? Well, I have to personally say it's not the most appetizing meal I've had. Since my last meal was my most recent philosophical phrase of "it is what it is", put in the context of my most recent relationship, I am a little nauseated.
As much as I would like to delude myself into thinking that certain relationships can fall under that philosophy, I was proven wrong by this one. I broke all my rules of engagement with this guy and really thought it would be okay for this particular situation. However, when the end came I definitely did not have the same gusto that I had at the beginning to say "it is what it is" to him.
Either I am getting softer hearted as I get older or maybe I am outgrowing my passion for being stubbornly single. Who knows? But one thing I did learn this time around that it isn't always what it is. That there is always the possibility of something else unforeseen by the head but that the heart does see that can throw a wrench in the best laid plan.
So the next time I want to say that "it is what it is" when describing a relationship, I will definitely remember this last bitter pill I just swallowed.
LIVE, LOVE, AND PLAY HARD
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