Singled Out

Okay it's official...My single girlfriend rankings are dwindling. Out of my girlfriends that I have known for quite a few years, I am now the only one that is single. I have obtained some more recent girlfriends but out that group it is still a minimal number. I can count the amount of single girlfriends I have on one hand. Now that is not a good percentage, I have to say. I know most of my 'coupled up' friends say that I should enjoy being single because its not that peachy in coupledom all the time. Some are jealous because I can do what I want, when I want and with who I want. But.....If coupledom is not so great than why does everyone have a huge desire to be a part of a couple? And why for the rest of us that are not part of coupledom feel 'singled out' ?
For the record, I am not really looking for answers to those questions. I am just babbling about the subject. I believe that both lifestyles has its pros and cons but being single has always had a more of a "bad boy" reputation linked to it. Its like in high school where you had your little cliques: the jocks, the cheerleaders, the nerds, and just the average middle of the road kids. But there was always the cool bad ass kid in your school that everybody wanted to befriend but not get really close to because the kid really didn't have a future past graduation (if the kid made it that far). Well, that's kind of the same feeling you have when you are single amongst the 'couples.' To graduate into coupledom, you have to have a significant other. Hence the 'singled out' theory I have.
Now onto to other nonsensical babble (I am waiting on the dryer to finish so therefore I have nothing else to do).....I keep getting asked this question, "what are you looking for in a man?." My answer has always been "I don't know"...Until now. I think I may have an answer now. I am looking for a person that 'gets' me without having to ask me 100 annoying questions about myself, someone who is secure enough in themselves (not arrogant) that I don't have to play nurse to their emotions and is able to share their emotions like a normal human adult-normal being the operative word. A person that is able to enjoy life and actively live it-not meaning having to be athletic ; ) All I want is a passionate, intelligent, fun-loving, secure man that 'gets' me-being attractive would be helpful ; ) Now is that too much to ask for? Or maybe it is : ( Oh I forgot to add a couple of things- job(does not have to be high paying) and a driver's license ; ) Now that might be too much to ask for ; )
Alright I am done with my babbling....Hope all is well with everyone and as always....Love and kisses

Rosebud